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Many people say I can predict the future, but I really cannot. I just understand the reasons behind things, which allows me to know what the outcomes will be. I see that wealthy people study why they became rich, while those who are unfortunate or poor analyze the reasons for their misfortune. Finding the cause and changing it is all it takes; it’s that simple. I am not extraordinary; I truly do not understand the concepts of birth dates or luck. I am not knowledgeable about zodiac signs either. I only discuss the reasons behind things; there are reasons for wealth and reasons for misfortune. For instance, when people have car accidents, nine out of ten times it is due to speeding; that is the reason. Why do couples get divorced? It is because they cannot tolerate each other and fail to understand one another. There is no such thing as a destined divorce. Once you learn to tolerate, your fortune will flourish, and you won’t need to divorce. Heaven only grants good relationships, not divorces. Divorce is a human-made issue, while marriage is a match made by heaven; do not confuse the two.
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Many people say they are fated to encounter romantic troubles, but I tell everyone that this is just a phrase used in fortune-telling; a skilled fortune-teller would never say such a thing. Why? Because they would not dare to speak words that could bring misfortune or shorten life. There is no such thing as a destined romantic trouble.
We all know about the Taiji (Tai Chi) and Bagua (Eight Trigrams), where black contains white and white contains black. In the universe, heaven represents yang and earth represents yin. Daytime is yang and nighttime is yin; the sun is yang and the moon is yin; men are yang and women are yin.
This world is fundamentally a union of yin and yang, where yang cannot exist without yin, and yin cannot exist without yang. They are mutually beneficial, supportive, and prosperous; this is the fundamental law of the universe.
When a couple comes together, it is like a small universe uniting, which has a significant impact on their family and individual lives. If a husband struggles throughout his life, it can be said that the wife bears a significant responsibility. Why is that? Because she cannot support her husband’s fortune.
Fortune-telling often discusses whether a woman can support her husband, but the real truth is that a man cannot support his wife either.
Because yin and yang can conflict; a man can undermine his wife, and a wife can undermine her husband. They complement each other. If a man cannot support his wife, how can a wife support her husband?
In the future, do not say, “I am not successful because you do not support me.” You are also not supporting them; you are independent entities. If you do not unite, you cannot prosper. The reason lies in the fact that your hearts are not together, your thoughts are not aligned, and your actions are not in sync. This leads to conflict between yin and yang. Conflict leads to decline, failure, suffering, and harm. It can even lead to the early demise of parents, misfortunes in marriage, and unrest among children.
Author: Qin Dongkui Edited/Produced by: Luo Xi Reviewed by: Su Xingan
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Highlights Recap
Respect each other, and also respect each other’s parents and relatives.
Too many complaints in the heart lead to spiritual suicide.
Life is not easy; do not wait until you lose something to regret.
Couples should consider each other more.
It is advised to cherish the person in front of you; heaven and hell are just a thought away.
If you must divorce, the man should not be the first to speak.
Disharmony between husband and wife is a major cause of family decline.
High-quality couples are like treasure chests, while average couples are like washbasins.
True love also requires rationality.
Love expressed physically is false love; love that maintains a constant temperature is true love.
Couples should be grateful for and cherish each other.
Couples should treat each other with respect.
Couples should regard each other as honored guests throughout their lives.
Couples should be like close friends.
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